As the sport of soccer sweeps
over the nation, it should be no surprise to learn that
homeschoolers are excelling at the highest levels.
Two long time Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA)
member families provide prime examples. Craig and Jan Klaas of
Rockford, Ill., have three children who have played collegiate
soccer. Kurt and Sherry Kuykendall of Oakton, Va., have five
children playing the game, including three who have played or have
agreed to play at the collegiate level.
For both families, the decision to home educate has facilitated
the children's soccer aspirations. Jan Klaas said homeschooling
helped free time for other family activities.
"Club soccer is such a demand on time. It can be draining.
Homeschooling helped ensure we would have other family time," Jan
said.
Kurt Kuykendall, who played professionally in the North
American Soccer League and coaches high school and club soccer,
said homeschooling has allowed him to go through additional skills
training with his children.
"From when they were ages 5 to 13, we would get up at 7:30, go
into the basement and do technical training for one hour Monday
through Friday," he said. "So they were able to develop a large
toolbox of skills and techniques with those hundreds of training
sessions which were in addition to club training. So the joke I
kid them with is that they owe it all to their mom, because
without being homeschooled, they would have been in school with
the other kids and not able to do this training."
The Kuykendalls third son, Jason, will live and play soccer in
Holland next year, with one of the amateur reserve teams of Top
Oss, a professional club in one of Europe's top leagues. Both Kris
and Shawn, his two older brothers, also did this before, enrolling
at American University in Washington, D.C., where they are
starting midfielders for the nationally-ranked program. Younger
sisters Jaime and Samantha play for youth club teams.
C.J. Klaas, the youngest of three children, is the starting
right back for the United States Under-20 national team, which
recently qualified for that age group's version of the World Cup.
C.J. is considered a top prospect to play professionally, perhaps
as early as next year. He also plays for the University of
Washington in Seattle. His older sister Katie is a junior
midfielder at Northern Illinois University, while their older
brother Kevin played and graduated from Judson College in
Illinois.
Katie Klaas cites her parents' decision to homeschool as an
important part of her success in soccer, as well as school.
"Probably the biggest thing would be the work ethic I was
taught at home," Katie said. "At public school, I saw kids do the
minimal work required to get through classes. At home, we were
always taught to work our hardest at things. We were reminded that
God commands us to do our best in everything, that we are working
for Him and not for people. I think even in soccer you can see the
mentality of 'what's the least I can do to get by.' We had the
mentality of 'what's the most we can do.' If my coach told me I
need to work on something, I would go work on it. We were used to
working on our own."
Katie noted her belief that homeschooling provided especially
good preparation for university.
"I feel like I'm a lot better off," she said. "I was given a
lot of independent studying to do in homeschooling. As I got
older, I'd go to a homeschool workshop and get information and
study on my own, which is a lot like what goes on in college."
Jan Klaas said soccer was part of her family's emphasis on
being involved with others, to help avoid the stereotype of
isolation among homeschoolers.
"It's important for a family to get involved in things. Our
kids had sports, they went out for music lesson, played with kids
in the neighborhood, at times it even got to be too much and we
had to say no to things," she said. "We are to be a light of the
world, so we've got to be in the world. That's been important to
Craig and I, that as Christians we are here to influence. We've
had a passion for reaching lost people. Homeschooling is an
opportunity to prepare our kids to reach the world, not just to
provide a shelter from the world, Soccer became our primary way
because it took up so much of our time."
Kurt Kuykendall also stressed that his family's decision to
homeschool was made in the context of providing tutelage to the
children in spiritual matters, which helped them respond to
adversity and challenges.
"After our training we had a family chapel over breakfast, and
this really helped in building strong family relationships," he
recalled. "We are a very close family and that makes a big
difference today."
C.J. Klaas noted that the family dynamic spurred on by
homeschooling provided a practical help to his soccer career as
well.
"It made a big difference, being able to stay home and get
things accomplished more quickly," he said. "That meant I was able
to play soccer with my older brother and sister and their friends.
It allowed me to practice on my own more than other players, but
my brother and sister played a big part in helping me be a better
player. They're both older than me and those two together, playing
at home, were a great help."